We've all been "friend zoned" by someone in life.... and it tends to come as a surprise to us. I have a really good guy friend who has told me... and a few others that being sent to the friend zone by me means falling in to the abyss of a giant black hole that you will never find your way out of. LOL! Yes, that actually makes me laugh.
If you're getting one of these 10 deadly signals from a woman, chances are you are headed to the "friend zone"...
1- She's not on her toes around you- No sparks means no romance. A woman who is trying to show you she is interested in you will be interested in the things you say and do. If she's perfectly at ease with you never showing her nervousness, that's not necessarily a good thing.
2- She doesn't laugh at your jokes- A sense of humor usually tops a woman's list of attractions. If she's really interested romantically, she'll laugh at your jokes, even if they aren't funny.
3- She brings up other women- When a single woman talks about your prospects with other women, she is shifting your attention from herself on to other victims. Passing the romantic buck can be inferred by saying "A great guy like you can get anyone you want". If you're out with your target and she leans in and says "She's beautiful isn't she?" chances are you've already entered the friend zone.
4- If there is no physical or intimate contact- One of the most common friend zone signs is if she pulls herself away each time you touch her casually. If she doesn't pull away from you, but never really touches you either, you are still being friend zoned.
5- She talks with you about the other men she's dating- If the woman you're interested in talks with you about the other guys she's dating, she has definitely friend zoned you.
6- Addresses you as a "friend"- You may spend all day together everyday, yet the way she introduces you to her family or friends is a huge sign of her thoughts about you on a romantic level. If her introductions are "He is such a good friend" or "I love John, he is my BFF" you should probably accept you fate in the friend zone.
7- You're her shoulder- The absolute worst way to realize that you have most definitely entered the friend zone is when you're her shoulder to cry on after every breakup. If this is the case you might as well book yourself a one-way ticket to the friend zone... No need to buy a return ticket.
8- Three's not a crowd- If you invite her somewhere and she brings along a friend every time... there is no doubt where you stand in terms of a friendship versus a romantic relationship.
9- She avoids being seen with you- When the two of you are out together she avoids being seen with you so people don't get the wrong idea. If she's making a point to stand away from you or let people know you're not "together" She has definitely cast you in to the friend zone and doesn't want any chance of anyone thinking the two of you are an item.
10- Shopping time- Does she call you to go shopping on a regular basis? Now if you're going lingerie shopping it's a different story, but if she calls you to go shoe shopping, purse shopping, or you're carrying all of her purchases through the mall like a puppy dog... that's where things are looking grim and you may just want to admit that you have definitely been friend zoned.
For some the friend zone isn't a bad place and can actually turn in to an amazing friendship, instead of a relationship that self destructs in a few weeks. I can honestly say I've been "bro'd" a few times and I'm still friends with a few of those men. My best guy friends have always been guys that I knew or found out were romantically interested in me but the feeling was not mutual. Or in a few cases we had dated and it just didn't work out.
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