HOW TO NOT BE AN ASSHOLE 101

HOW TO NOT BE AN ASSHOLE 101

I'm sure I will get criticized for this post but there are quite a few men that should REALLY read it. I'm not saying there aren't women that are assholes but I would rather talk about the men right now. You would think it would be easy or at least common knowledge to not be an asshole but it's obviously very hard for some people.  So here are a few easy steps to avoid assholism....

• Don't mess with other peoples feelings. Meaning if you truly don't care for someone don't keep them on the line just so you can cast and reel them in when it suits you.
• Tell the truth. No matter how much the truth hurts it's never as bad as finding out you've been lied to repeatedly.
• Don't make lame excuses. If you don't want to spend time with someone then don't make plans with them. Be a man and tell that person you'd rather be doing something else rather than making lame excuses that "something" came up. After the first time a woman will know you're just a coward.
• If you're not ready to be in a relationship then DON'T say and do relationship things.
• DO NOT compare or constantly talk about your ex or exes to the person you are dating. They truly don't want to hear about the things you used to do. If you haven't moved on enough to be okay with your past then you have no business dating.
• If you're dating someone and you've told them they are the only person you're dating be smart and don't flirt with other women on social media, texting, or in public. There's an extremely good chance that the woman you're dating will find out one way or another.
• Don't talk about yourself nonstop. There is nothing more annoying than a man who always turns the conversation to himself.
• And last but not least don't tell the person you're dating that you can't go on vacation with them and then invite another woman to go on a trip with you.... Ya a definite sign of a true asshole.

It's really not that difficult to be a good person so it makes me wonder if some people are just born this way or if it is a learned thing. Instead of playing games and hurting people, why not just be an honest, kind person?

As you can tell I've dated my share of assholes. For some reason attract them... and I haven't quite figured out why. But here's what I do know.... There is NO good reason to lie to someone who cares about you. There is NO good reason to play with anyone's feelings and emotions. There is NO good reason to date someone if you can't make them a priority in your life. There is NO good reason to make someone feel as though they just don't matter. If you have to treat people like this.... you should really get some therapy for your assholism!